well, since this is a toyota modification forum, i thought id post with a personal dilemma of mine and get some reaction off the hood here. its a bit soap opera, actually it wont be that interesting for anyone else, but tough.
well, i was going out with a girl for about 8 months, she had chronic fatigue, so i supported her through it etc etc, in the end, she started going out and getting pissed, (she was 16) so i pretty much said, if your not going to help yourself, then i cant help you,(she used to complain and get depressed an awful lot) her response was 'i need to reward myself' i said 'reward yourself by getting better' she said 'you dont understand me' i said 'obviously not, lets break up.' shortened terms but you get the drift, she was a little immmature, i was a little harsh, but, thats the motion of the ocean.
i got over her pretty quick, she wanted me back, i was just polite, i didnt want anything to happen. in the meantime, one of my best mates warwick who owns a 180sx auto(spent about 20 grand on the piece of shit and its still pretty pathetic) gets to know her, starts to be her friend and so forth. they spend more and more time together, warwick has a gf. anyway, it didnt bother me. but, a couple of weeks later my gf accuses me of cheating on her. now, before i was going out with her i ALMOST got with another girl, (im not a slut, i resented the fact and still regret it fully today), but anyway, i told her what i ALMOST did, but i didnt tell anyone else but her, ryley and warwick. someone told her i practically had sex and cheated on her. wasnt ryley, had to be warwick. rang him up, he denied it, made up a massive flasified story, i picked it to shit, he made up more intertwining lies, twas pathetic. found another contradiction, rang him up, asked him if he was trying to get with my ex, his response 'nah man, you are my best mate, as if id go f*cking you around, come on.' he still continued to message me and be mate and so forth.
the reason for the massive post? found out he has been backstabbing me for months, and he almost had sex with my ex about a week after we broke up. hmm, perfectly within boundaries i guess, cept for the fact that he cheated on his gf, AND he lied to me bare faced, and told about a million other lies. gloves are off...what should i do...he has cheated on his gf b4 and not told her...i have the ammunition, the ball is in my court...
please poll ur opinions to me, now...keep in mind im not really emotionally attached, so im comfortable getting revenged in any means possible...have nothing to lose. btw i dont know how to operate the poll, so tell me if it doesnt come up
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