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cuttin another guys grass ?? .....
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Wed, 07 April 2004 10:48
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loooong story, but as im in the middle of fuckin nowhere at the moment, the only chance ive really got to get this off my chest is here... lame huh!!?
girl is HOT, fundamentally awesome
girl is taken, well and truly
girls b/f looks like a fuckin loser
girl flirted with me first
girl didnt mention she had a b/f (i found out myself)
girl now considering choice - me or him
SO...
do i just plough ahead and fuck over the b/f completely, and take the chick
do i give the chick 'space' and let her make up her own mind in her own time
do i give up, and walk away
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Wed, 07 April 2004 10:55
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just bang her...
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Wed, 07 April 2004 10:58
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if she flirted with you she is probably bored with her boyfriend and fair game if you ask me.
if you get your chance with a hot chick take it
a word of advice, make sure she dosent see this thread.
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Wed, 07 April 2004 10:59
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dude if shes got a b/f you should let her make her mind up for herself first the last thing you wan't is for him to come after you for wanting her mate let her make her mind up first then see what happens then decide
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:03
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If its just sex and you dont care about what happens between "them", go for it.
But if you're looking for a relationship, you have just asked a really stupid question that has a few too many variables for me to be bothered with.
Good luck which ever it may be.
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:03
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Go for it brotha. If everything was cool in paradise, she wouldn't be looking around. On the flip side, if she does the same thing to you - don't be surprised.
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:06
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I'd say if you don't know the guy then it's not nearly as bad as if you do.
But in my eyes it comes down to how serious you are.. Are you going to be around for a good time or a long time? If she's got something serious with her current b/f (no matter how much of a fuckstick he might be) then don't do it unless you're willing to stick around.. Don't want to mess the girl up and get her to leave the bloke if you're only going to piss off once you've shagged her.
On the other hand maybe he's just a dud root and she only wants a good shag.. If that's the case then lock in number 1 Eddie 
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:06
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| Backspace wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 21:03 |
if you're looking for a relationship, you have just asked a really stupid question
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totlly true 
im kinda at that point where the chase is really damn exciting, and kinda just want to talk about it... unfortunatey there aint too many folks around here to really talk to (at least until fri when i head back into town)
plus, i just want to see what the general sentiment on this is - im not exactly going to plan my route of attack based on whats posted here 
cheers
ed
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:08
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| ed_ma61 wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 21:06 |
im not exactly going to plan my route of attack based on whats posted here
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Suuuuurre! 
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:10
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:38
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since you're just after the chase, I say go for it. Spade as much as possible, and then if she mentions she has a boyfriend you can be "oh sorry" etc 
if after a relationship... well, still ok if the guy's a dick, but then you gotta ask yourself how much you can trust her.
and where are you anyhow? rural placement or some such?
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:47
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| draven wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 21:38 |
and where are you anyhow? rural placement or some such?
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hole in one
today up in coonabarabran... tomorrow back in dubbo, weekend playing cars, then tues i think im off to bourke. somehwre in there ive got to go to lightning ridge as well. also a few RFDS retrievals and clinics. in dubbo otherwise.
otherwise, yeah, i think im going down the 'want a relationship' path - spoken a few times now, and a few emails too. i think its all on, but shes obviously in a world of awkward/frustrated uncertainty atm... damn but greg, she ticks all the boxes
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:50
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You are too young for a relationship. Go the bangin' route (or should that be root?).
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Re: cuttin another guys grass ?? .....
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:52
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HIT THAT SHIT NIGGA!!!
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:52
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I got one that ticks all but 1 of the boxes... how I pine
I was going to suggest you grab 3 of her friends and try and beat my offer, but if you want a relationship that may not be the best way to express your feelings
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Wed, 07 April 2004 11:57
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monogamous fuck buddies is the term thrown around my circle
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:00
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| ed_ma61 wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 21:51 |
dave...
how bout you and i go out with the girlfriend and her - and YOU an have the friend?
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Ah but alas.....if I were single.....
Dude, she'll make up her own mind. All jokes aside, lunch cutting is bad form. Much like this guy's swim cossie.
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:01
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ps - shes polish, blonde, and packs some healthy european genes
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:01
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you've been looking for an opportunity to use that pic, haven't you dave?
MMmmm..... blonde euro-babe
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:03
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| ed_ma61 wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 22:01 |
ps - shes polish, blonde, and packs some healthy european genes
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picsorban
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:06
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no pics 
i have a password protected one from the med fac site which im sure as shit not postiing up here. nor do i want to discover someone on here knows her, and feed back this (not so little) thread's exixtence
shes one foxy firecracker though
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:08
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| draven wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 22:04 |
at least now I know where all the hot women are hiding
way out west!
edit: no comment about my avatar ed? I thought you'd be the first to jump in
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not west, my friend!!
and LOL - its just clicked wtf that avatar is!! i thought i knew it, but LOL!! i just got it! onya buddy!
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:11
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Dave. NEVER NEVER post your holiday snaps again! 
We know it's you under the hat.
Wait no, maybe he's in the bikini
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:13
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wtf is that avatar???
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:29
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| clubagreenie wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 22:19 |
Ed post the pic up so when you bring her to her first toymods event we can make her feel welcome by printing & wearing our own "Ed's girlfriend" tshirts.
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And put this pic on the back!
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Wed, 07 April 2004 12:43
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Isn't that the "family" refered to in another thread? They might come after you for using treir image ilegally.
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Wed, 07 April 2004 13:09
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| ed_ma61 wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 22:06 |
blah blah blah.....i have a password protected one from the med fac site which im sure as shit not postiing up here.....insert other gay ass excuses
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Wed, 07 April 2004 13:10
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wtf?
you're asking a bunch of car nerds for relationship advice?
half the reason most guys are on this forum - instead of humping their better half - is that they have less of a clue about relationships than what to do with the box of bolts-n-shit left over after their last engine rebuild...
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Wed, 07 April 2004 13:15
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Bro, I needz da password
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Wed, 07 April 2004 13:18
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hehehe, i nearly PM'd you with it too
you can see when youre up here in the next day or so!
and chuckster - I AM A CAR NERD!! who else better to undertsnad my feeble ways? LOL!!
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Wed, 07 April 2004 13:33
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Oh, the gut wrenching pain that only a girl can bring into your life....
Damn it hurts.
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Wed, 07 April 2004 15:32
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*nah, I got too much respect*
Mate, i've seen it before... If she is 'taken' then leave it be. Most likely the bitch 'll use you and drop you...
Check my previous posting, I ain't no saint but another guys woman is defiantly off limits! Leave it be! If she wants you *SHE* will end the current relationship and make the move!!!
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Wed, 07 April 2004 16:17
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man you have to make sure she knows what shes doing and if its for the right reason. cos if shes just going with her "emotions" things will only ever be f'ed up, my opinion anyways.
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Wed, 07 April 2004 21:16
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ed,
Half of Toymods is about to desend on Dubbo and you're bragging about half having a hot chick....
This being the case guys....
Get on the blue stuff and get some pix!!!!
On the subject there is a trust thing at work here, but let her make the move towards you before you make the move south.
I'm going to watch porn now... 
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Wed, 07 April 2004 21:49
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If you are considering a serious relationship with this girl, have you considered that if she cheats on her current b/f that she could later cheat on you when she gets 'bored' ?
Also, are you interested in her
1)because you like her,
2)because she is attractive or
3)because she is interested in you?
Just my 2 cents worth.
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Wed, 07 April 2004 22:29
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do i give the chick 'space' and let her make up her own mind in her own time
Thats what id Do..
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Wed, 07 April 2004 23:17
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Dude who started this thread...*insert laziness here...I cbf to scroll*
If you're a mower...then cut the farkn grass..
If not and u've got a morsel of respect...wait till she ends it with said boyfriend. If she hasn't already left his, there still that desire she's got to hang on to what she has. Give it time, that way you won't make her choice, she won't make a rushed decision and you/her won't end up regretting it because she'll be looking over her shoulder at the past until she's ready to move on with the future...
And anyway...if all things are ended before you take it up with her, you can't get accused of cutting the grass...the most you can get pinned with is being with a friends ex, and if he's a true friend, then he'd always want to see you happy, with whoever it may be...if he's not a true friend, he's not gonna give a shit when you end up with her, and there'll be no cutting of grass, it'll just be a lovely progression of events...
Anyway...go your hardest at Dubbo...
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Wed, 07 April 2004 23:35
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how long has she been with the other dude?
if shes gunna dump the other b/f for another guy, is she just gunna dump you for someone else later on?
so yeah, if the chick is smokin. and she gets single go for gold and be happy with the booty!
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Wed, 07 April 2004 23:41
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Give her a little space let her make her own mind is what i'd do. But if you want her bad throw some hints so she'll make up her mind quicker.
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Thu, 08 April 2004 00:35
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on a more serious note if he can't do his job i think you should get in there.
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Thu, 08 April 2004 01:14
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Sounds like ed is keen but is looking for permission from the toymodders before doing something naughty and bad...
Why do you need permission from toymodders?? 
Do or do not. There is no try.
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Thu, 08 April 2004 01:35
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yeh lumpy...
fck it ED, like you care what we tell you anyway !!!!!! HAHAHA
do whats in your heart, if it is wrong, then you learnt yourself a lesson, if it is right then who knows where that may lead u !
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Thu, 08 April 2004 02:38
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do whats in your heart, if it is wrong, then you learnt yourself a lesson, if it is right then who knows where that may lead u
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Life's like that huh! hehehe
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Thu, 08 April 2004 04:23
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too much respect...
u know why.... put ur self in that position if u were her bf some guy come along and then she went with him... how would u feel... honestly?
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Thu, 08 April 2004 04:29
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Mr.2 is right.
But you still wanna hit it
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Thu, 08 April 2004 04:35
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as I said, if her bf is a dick then I dont care if I tread on his feelings/scrotum.
if he's nice, then I'd back right off, see what happens.
Although having said that, in a recent situation I didn't quite do that (oops)
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Thu, 08 April 2004 05:15
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| ed_ma61 wrote on Wed, 07 April 2004 21:51 |
dave...
how bout you and i go out with the girlfriend and her - and YOU an have the friend?
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Ah but alas.....if I were single.....
Dude, she'll make up her own mind. All jokes aside, lunch cutting is bad form. Much like this guy's swim cossie.
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Man, that is scary.............     
Anyway, Ed, she took after you, didn't mention b/f (does she know that you know ?), and is still talkin.
Take it easy but keep up the appearances and it sounds like it might work
Good luck
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Thu, 08 April 2004 05:18
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I was initially going to say if you have any respect at all for the b/f leave it till she breaks it off... but i've just recieved messages that a girl i was chasing decided to sleep with one of the guys after Steve-Os show last night so f*ck that i'm off tonight to mow everybodies grass regardless.
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Thu, 08 April 2004 05:22
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that was my excuse too boris
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Thu, 08 April 2004 05:46
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| GRLTOY wrote on Thu, 08 April 2004 09:17 |
the most you can get pinned with is being with a friends ex, and if he's a true friend, then he'd always want to see you happy, with whoever it may be...
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A true friend woulndn't get with an ex.
Unspoken rule #2.
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Thu, 08 April 2004 05:48
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Agreed with max here, unless friend has moved on and the issue has been discussed *before* getting with said ex
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