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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Wed, 14 July 2004 05:36
 
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Guys, my little buddy Mr. Madskillz is right....
Works a treat!
Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen.
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Wed, 14 July 2004 05:55
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guys guys guys...it all comes down to tribal instint, and the culture we live in...tribal instint: we have to realise we are the dominant sex and start acting like it!! for starters women cant make decisions for themselves(not all)so make the plans be suggestive controll the next move and dont ask.assume,a womans natural instint when ever you suggest to go somewhere will be to say no...even if she has liked you for ages...they cant help it,it is instint it creates the chase situation that goes back to these times...that doesnt go for sex tho...
as for society at the moment if you are guna be another yes man to a pretty girl,then your not really going to stand out are you..todays society allows the beautiful people to get away with anything so put a stop to it!! treat her like any other person,theres nothing I like more than putting some princess in her place...you wouldnt believe how many will hang off you after you do it...anyways thats another story...anyway that is why they generally go for dickheads as they arent smart enough to remember when to call when organised,to say nice things around them,so when they actually do it really has alot more impact...glad im out of it and have found my gal..good luck 
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Tassie
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Wed, 14 July 2004 07:02
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unfortunatly i'm right but the tribal instinc thing does make sense .
1 thing i love doing is when the conversation gets boring or goes somewhere u don't want it to. I either walk off or tell them i'm done with the conversation and say goodbye.
All the things i've said i do i only do to girls never guys . Guys get respect when they have earnt it so i'm not a total asshole
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Bris-vague-us
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Sydney
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Wed, 14 July 2004 17:53
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HELL NO!!! iv tried the be nice thing and you just get screwed and walked all over... stuff that never again NO WAY
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central coast, NSW
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Thu, 15 July 2004 05:15
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Wow this thread is still pumping 
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VIC, Sth Frankston.
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Thu, 15 July 2004 05:31
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That is why I live with lesbians. Not all their friends are into chicks
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Thats freakin GENIUS!!!
Now, where to find some lesbos? Hot lesbians are a rare breed imho.
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Tassie
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Thu, 15 July 2004 07:50
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I gotta find me sum lesbians
r they in the yellow pages ? jk
from a girls point of veiw am i right ???
we need to see what a girl says . i think if ur good looking then treating her like a princess will work but unfortunaly i'm not so i don't untill i get to know them.
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Thu, 15 July 2004 16:10
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Thats freakin GENIUS!!!
Now, where to find some lesbos? Hot lesbians are a rare breed imho.
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In my experience, they hang out in packs. My record is living with 4 at once... NOT WORTH IT! Waaaaay too stressful, so now I just live a couple.
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central coast, NSW
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Mon, 06 September 2004 11:54
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live a couple ? mmmmm of what I wonder 
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Melbourne
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Sun, 06 March 2005 10:33
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| Nark wrote on Wed, 12 May 2004 16:02 |
Nah Norbie, you were just born a loser.
Just like me, robbo_RA40, and Allan_BHG. Except you're not ghey like the other two.
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you cheeky bastard i just found this
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Cabramatta, NSW
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Sun, 06 March 2005 12:09
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haha Well, you are a little slow Allan.
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Sun, 06 March 2005 12:12
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i just thought your where a nice guy - your obviously not
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Cabramatta, NSW
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Sun, 06 March 2005 22:38
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Me? A nice guy? Don't insult me like that! 
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Colac, Victoria
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Mon, 07 March 2005 01:58
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And of all else fails - theres always " george! "
( toymods IRC channel joke -! you goota be there and crud like that )
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Pilbara
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November 2004
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Tue, 08 March 2005 02:39
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You can still be nice but keep your manly distance from any hint of gimpy (and mostly false) 'wanna be your friend if I can't be more' bullshit. People get along regardless. My personal attitude at the moment is just to be a happy fella and not worry about women. I mean if you are gonna meet a woman and you click then that's cool. Anything that requires too much effort on your part is not worth it. You might even get a root from endless hard work,plotting and scheming to get a chick but regardless of whether you are a woman or a man, it's about respect. No one in their right mind is gonna value and respect somebody who grovels around cos it's so easy for women to see what is really on a blokes mind.
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Tue, 08 March 2005 13:43
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DON'T chase. You have to let them chase you. It's all about strength of character. Chicks don't want a wussy man who'll cave on everything they could possibly want. That's boring.
You need the tension and spark between the two of you. If you don't get the girl... meh, move on. There's a million other chicks. Just remember that with every girl, think to yourself: "there's gonna be something about this chick that will REALLY FUKIN ANNOY ME!!!"
Just relax and exude confidence. It's all about the 'feel' or chemistry. Chicks don't think... yeah this guy seems funny/smart/entertaining/attractive. They feel it. Just like us. You KNOW when you're attracted to a chick. Chicks KNOW when they're attracted to guys.
That doesn't mean you have to treat them like crap. It's just that alot of these jerks give out the kind of confidence and strength of character chicks are attracted to. Meh... could say more but tired. End Rant.
Eddie.
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Perth, WA
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Thu, 10 March 2005 16:26
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| griminir wrote on Tue, 25 May 2004 14:34 |
The Ladder Theory speaketh The Truth.
I thought it was established earlier in this thread that no one knows what the fuck girls want - not even girls.
Apparantly it's all a crock anyway - "love" is a psychological cushion designed by humans to soften our most basest need - procreation. And that drives almost everything we do.
(Money and power could be seen as things that will make us more attractive to a potential partner. It all gets back to that need)
So.. What do girls want?
Ultimately...Sex!
Bear that in mind when your wife / girlfriend tries to manipulate you by witholding it.
We are all just bald apes who want a root.
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Mate, when can i meet you and shake your hand?
guys seem to forget the females like sex too, or do all of you think that they do it to satisfy guys?
get your heads out of your asses and realise that...
I kept a girl on a short tether for 6 months, and lord knows it worked a treat, im still reeling from the effect!
So yeah... girls like sex, if they like to play with your desires, fuck with theirs, and anything they want, dont get it for them... its not going to kill them is it? everyone earns their money and spends their money, and around and around we go 
Cheers,
Eldar.O.
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 07:56
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omg this thread is still going...
so we all figured out that woman likes sex as much as you guys
ahhhh our secret is out 
well i reakon that u guys don't like sex given to you easy
and you hide your true feelings about that so you don't get hurt
whereas us woman put a whole lot more on the line therefor we are
willing to wait....
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I supported Toymods
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Epping, Sydney
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sydney
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Liverpool, Sydney
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 10:01
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| Cressida Chick wrote on Fri, 11 March 2005 18:56 |
and you hide your true feelings about that so you don't get hurt
whereas us woman put a whole lot more on the line therefor we are
willing to wait....
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Not in every case.. trying to get feelings and all that emotional bullshit out of me is like trying to get blood out of a stone... all that crap takes way too long, then you have all the 'implied' stuff, and the read in between the lines stuff.. who wants to read in between the lines?
Chances are it will be mis interpreted and fucked upalong the lines somewhere... kinda like a case of 'purple monkey dishwasher..'
Dont make me guess, dont make me wait, no reading in between the lines, if you have somehting to say.. write it down ON the lines and dont waste my time...!
I have 2 cars and 2 jobs... i dont even have time to rest, let alone try to deal with any emotional/relationship crap... I go thru enough ups and down, happy times and bad times and fights with my car than any other person/bf could ever give to me...
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Land of Oz
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June 2004
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 10:19
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Hi,
2 cars.. 2 Jobs... you're a real two-timer ain't ya?
seeyuzz
river
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 10:29
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| MFX_Neko_86 wrote on Fri, 11 March 2005 21:01 |
| Cressida Chick wrote on Fri, 11 March 2005 18:56 |
and you hide your true feelings about that so you don't get hurt
whereas us woman put a whole lot more on the line therefor we are
willing to wait....
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Not in every case.. trying to get feelings and all that emotional bullshit out of me is like trying to get blood out of a stone... all that crap takes way too long, then you have all the 'implied' stuff, and the read in between the lines stuff.. who wants to read in between the lines?
Chances are it will be mis interpreted and fucked upalong the lines somewhere... kinda like a case of 'purple monkey dishwasher..'
Dont make me guess, dont make me wait, no reading in between the lines, if you have somehting to say.. write it down ON the lines and dont waste my time...!
I have 2 cars and 2 jobs... i dont even have time to rest, let alone try to deal with any emotional/relationship crap... I go thru enough ups and down, happy times and bad times and fights with my car than any other person/bf could ever give to me...
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to the point is good too .... it has it's advantages
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Liverpool, Sydney
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 10:34
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river.. yeah something like that
Cresida Chick - Damn straight
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Adelaide
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January 2005
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 10:57
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funny i was having this conversation with a friend of mine who is sexy, funny, sweet, intelligent, chivalrous and still single. in fact i seem to have quite a few guys friends who are great catches yet they can't find women. either women are stupid and do just like jerks or the guys aren't looking in the right spot which leads us to the question of - where are the right spots
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 11:07
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My perfect woman would be someone who understands me and can put up with my antics. Same taste in music would be an advantage. People are saying too me you should be out looking for another girl. Why?? Most of the chicks I see seem too be the same anyway. I end up getting hurt. Life is great being single. I am able too save for a house which is something they will more then likely never have. I may have been hurt by girls before but for now who cares?? I don't. I will be the one laughing in the end not them. Yes. I might only be a labourer and yes I own a 1989 Camry. But I know I can do what I want.I will be succesfull. So go ahead say I wouldn't make a good boyfriend because I don't have a good job or a flash car. I will be more succesfull not you bitch!!
Sorry just the way I feel about alot of girls I have ment 
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Liverpool, Sydney
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 11:14
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The way i see it - dont look!
Ive got mates who always go out looking to find someone, do all the dressing up thing yadda yadda..
I think its better to just do what you do and keep at it.. if someone comes along they come along but if they dont - who cares?
Lifes too short to worry about that sort of shit..
Also something else - guys who say they want a chick whos into cars usually dont.. or not for long.. eventually they crack and start complaining that the car gets more love than them and they dont get enough attention... i thought that shit wasnt supposed to happen... either that or they cant be told they are wrong or theres a chance a girl might know more than them... penis size doesnt decrease when a girl may know more than you or be trying to tell YOU something... seriously, we arent challenging your manhood!
Pfft.
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Fri, 11 March 2005 11:24
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MFX_Neko_86 thats good advice dude
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I supported Toymods
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Epping, Sydney
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Sat, 12 March 2005 06:34
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| MFX_Neko_86 wrote on Fri, 11 March 2005 22:14 |
The way i see it - dont look!
Ive got mates who always go out looking to find someone, do all the dressing up thing yadda yadda..
I think its better to just do what you do and keep at it.. if someone comes along they come along but if they dont - who cares?
Lifes too short to worry about that sort of shit..
Also something else - guys who say they want a chick whos into cars usually dont.. or not for long.. eventually they crack and start complaining that the car gets more love than them and they dont get enough attention... i thought that shit wasnt supposed to happen... either that or they cant be told they are wrong or theres a chance a girl might know more than them... penis size doesnt decrease when a girl may know more than you or be trying to tell YOU something... seriously, we arent challenging your manhood!
Pfft.
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if you don't look and you're really picky (like me) you tend to get the rejects trying painful advances, and the good chicks have hot guys cracking on to them
I think like most well-adjusted car modders, I dont expect a gf who loves my car as much as me... all I expect is for her to respect the fact that I think it's perfectly sensible to pour thousands of $ and hundreds of hours into my car
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I Supported Toymods
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Sat, 12 March 2005 06:41
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| draven wrote on Sat, 12 March 2005 17:34 |
I think like most well-adjusted car modders, I dont expect a gf who loves my car as much as me... all I expect is for her to respect the fact that I think it's perfectly sensible to pour thousands of $ and hundreds of hours into my car
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Heh good luck finding one of those dude You're probably gunna need it.
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Liverpool, Sydney
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Sat, 12 March 2005 06:56
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Hey there are some of us out here who are like that... !
If you dont put the time and the money into your car.. you dont get the car you want!
However i prefer to put more time into my car than money.. its more satisfying that way....
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I supported Toymods
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Epping, Sydney
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Sat, 12 March 2005 06:58
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as the gunners song goes, "you get nothing for nothing"... money and time are required
and yes, luck is needed, and a lot of patience, but those girls do exist! 2 of my mates with 200rwkw supras have gfs who tolerate their hobby (and driving habits), so there's gotta be some more out tehre
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I Supported Toymods
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Sat, 12 March 2005 07:05
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| MFX_Neko_86 wrote on Sat, 12 March 2005 17:56 |
Hey there are some of us out here who are like that... !
If you dont put the time and the money into your car.. you dont get the car you want!
However i prefer to put more time into my car than money.. its more satisfying that way....
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Yeah same here. Much more satisfying... And also I don't have much money heh
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2 of my mates with 200rwkw supras have gfs who tolerate their hobby (and driving habits), so there's gotta be some more out tehre
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Well I got one of them hehe. It doesnt have 200rwkw, but it will be in time. My gf nags a little, but so far she's been fairly understanding and tolerant. She's even going to let me get a hoist for the garage when we get a house together How cool is that??
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Sun, 13 March 2005 22:36
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| MFX_Neko_86 wrote on Fri, 11 March 2005 21:01 |
I go thru enough ups and down, happy times and bad times and fights with my car than any other person/bf could ever give to me...
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You obviously have not met me yet
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Mon, 14 March 2005 07:46
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mmm Well seeing as I am one of those girls that has a Hubby who spends time on his car and money the most important thing is balance....
i think that it's important for your partner to do what he wants and visa versa.....I also think that it's important to spend time together alone then together with your kids...then time as a family
It is hard work to get it but at the end of the day if you care about someone you ain't about to go and spend ALL your time on the car and she ain't gonna want to spend ALL her time doing her stuff... you will be willing to compromise.
She also wouldn't want to spend ALL her time with you and visa versa......
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Thu, 17 March 2005 06:19
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| MFX_Neko_86 wrote on Fri, 11 March 2005 18:01 |
| Cressida Chick wrote on Fri, 11 March 2005 18:56 |
and you hide your true feelings about that so you don't get hurt
whereas us woman put a whole lot more on the line therefor we are
willing to wait....
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Not in every case.. trying to get feelings and all that emotional bullshit out of me is like trying to get blood out of a stone... all that crap takes way too long, then you have all the 'implied' stuff, and the read in between the lines stuff.. who wants to read in between the lines?
Chances are it will be mis interpreted and fucked upalong the lines somewhere... kinda like a case of 'purple monkey dishwasher..'
Dont make me guess, dont make me wait, no reading in between the lines, if you have somehting to say.. write it down ON the lines and dont waste my time...!
I have 2 cars and 2 jobs... i dont even have time to rest, let alone try to deal with any emotional/relationship crap... I go thru enough ups and down, happy times and bad times and fights with my car than any other person/bf could ever give to me...
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neko, your awesome, i keep telling girls to cut through the bullshit and tell me what they feel, ive had several instances where i liked a girl, she liked me, but wouldnt show any affection in return because shes scared of rejection.
seriously, what the fuck do you have to lose by just saying you like someone? turns out a girl at work reaqlly liked me for 5 months or so, i found out 3 weeks ago ffs, CUT THE SHIT!
it pisses me off, then theres the blokes with super high standards and no way to reach them, every "non-perfect" girl doesnt get a second look, and every "prefect-girl" doesnt get a look at all because hes too much of a softcock to talk to em...
this cat and mouse shit has got to stop, also, wile im ranting "ive been hurt before and i dont want it to happen again" not all guys are the same, and youve gotta realise that, some want pussy, some want a mate, some want a girlfriend, only thing you have to watch is what their doing, if they want sex straight away, guess what they want?
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Re: Nice guys finish first
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Thu, 17 March 2005 06:33
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Thanks EldarO! ^,^
Umm, yeah, seriously, its a yes or no thing... its not a grey matter... i dont get the scared of rejection thing either.. if you hide everything then all you will do is work yourself up for rejection, whereas if you go straight for the kill, it may be a knock back, and hey, it may sting, but at least you now know and can move forward from there and stop wasting your time.. like that other chick.. 5 months?! Thats like, half a year (nearly) !
Shit!
And, kinda creepy too... id rather someone tell me they like me than, think about me and etc etc for all that time, without me knowing....
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