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Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:05
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Just on sunday broke up with the missus, which was partially my fault, because I basically wasn't the nicest to her (I wasn't mean, just not always the best) because I'd had enough, but now that she's gone, I realise that I really did miss her. Ah well.
That said,
Interested to know people's best theories on getting over someone?
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Campbelltown
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:13
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buy a new car 
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Kellyville, Sydney
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June 2004
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:17
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update your porno collection. you know you'll need it 
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:21
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both worthy responses, however probably not necessary in either case.
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Melbourne
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:26
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has she got a hot sister, MILF mommy or hot best friend??
I found a supra works wonders!
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:28
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she has a hot best friend, but the rest of the family aren't anything to write home about.
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Kellyville, Sydney
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:33
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seriously just spend a while enjoying all things you couldnt do while you were together. What these things may be depends on the chick but stuff like:
spending more time with mates
having big piss ups
not having to answer stupid questions about clothes
etc etc.
doing this kinda stuff should cheer you up which in turn should boost your confidence and help you find someone new. good luck
chris
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Banned by his request
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moved to tamworth
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:38
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go to the best brothel.get two girls for an hour or three. bet you dont think of anything but lust for an hour or three.
mick
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:41
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Heh.
Thanks man.
A mate of mine suggested
"Just go out and fuck fuck fuck."
I liked the idea, but would be interesting to put into practice.
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:42
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Mick:
Hehe, yeah I see your point, but I'm not a brothel kinda guy
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:49
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posting up on a forum does not help cuz u get some freaky (and funny ideas)
just suck it up mate - u'll get over it
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I Supported Toymods
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Lwr Templestowe, Melbourne
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:50
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No need mate. Just use your dashing-good-fabio-looks and you'll be set  Ever need a drinking partner (when I'm free), you know where I live
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:54
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Hehe. I was after those wierd and wonderfull answers....
Yian: Yes yes, might be necessary. What you doing friday night.
Cept I'm running out of single mates..
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Banned user
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:57
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I feel your pain, im going through the same.
For no reason, heres a pic of gangsta dog
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I Supported Toymods
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:58
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Friday: working from midnight - 8am
Can meet up before then though
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Tue, 26 July 2005 06:59
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Thanks mate..
THat gangsta dog is funny.
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:13
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lol dood i did exactly same thing hey, u no wat i did i went and bought another car so now i got 2 and i dont even no y lol prob woulda been cheaper keepin the missus 
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:16
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heheh.
Yes, but does the car talk back and give you shit???? Nope, or atleast not in the same annoying way..
That said, the car probably doesn't give you sex, however it may assist in you getting it.
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:21
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lol well not the one i bought last night... no offence to any KE55 owners but i dont really c it gettin me roots, but the celica has a better chance  i no how u feel u like miss her and shit hey and then u will c with another bloke and u will get in a biff with him lol go out and buy yaself an old rolla it makes it a lil bit better
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:26
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Yeah, but I figure if I get in first and get another girl before she gets another guy, then it'll all be ok, and i'll be much better off. Don't you think?
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:28
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go out with mates and hit the piss something shocking and make lewd attempts at tuning the bar maid(s). then hopefully dont find out that one of their boyfriends works there, and then even funnier that he is a giant maori with guns so big they should be illegal. then run away like a scared little dog. This is what i did after breaking up with girlfriend of three years, and now i rarely think of her, even if she is spending a lot of time with one of my best mates......bitch
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:29
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no. if you find a chick first, your ex will turn super nasty on you. trust me. if she finds a guy first, it is much easier to stay friends.
chris
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:29
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| forced_induction wrote on Tue, 26 July 2005 17:28 |
......bitch
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arnt they all
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:31
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hrm, that doesn't sound too great, given that it's one of your mates and all..
Does anybody see the problem with me just trying to find a temporary (IE not long term permanent) someone else?
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:33
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But I'm not allowed to be super nasty if she finds a guy first. Peh, if I don't speak to her again because she didn't like the fact that I was with someone else, then so be it. Stiff shit. The relationship is over, it would be great to stay friends, but if not, well, I guess that's just the way it goes.
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:33
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nah thats the way to go 
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:35
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nah u always say like yeh well be friends blah blah blah and then u like try it and shit but u never really actually become freinds with them... its not natural it doesnt work hey to much history
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:36
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i was assuming you wanted to stay friends, as i have will most of my exs. if not:
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has she got a hot sister
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:36
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Yeah, I guess that's the case. Atleast that's been my experience (cept for that one that keeps ringing me, but that's another story).
I'd like the friends thing to work, but yeah, I think you're right, too much history.
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:37
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Being 'friends' isn't really that bad. Depends on what your classification of 'friends' is. My ex is hot (in my eyes). Casual 'meetings' can be quite interesting
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:38
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Yeah, I had thought of said hot friend,
but
I don't think that'd work because I don't think said friend would be in for it.
But fuck, sometime in the not too distant future I could consider it.....
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:38
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Can I meet said ex Yian??
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Kellyville, Sydney
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:40
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nah u always say like yeh well be friends blah blah blah and then u like try it and shit but u never really actually become freinds with them... its not natural it doesnt work hey to much history
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i'm still friends with one of my exs. surprisingly. i found a new chick (one of her friends) before she found a new guy and boy did all hell brake loose. after about 6 months of abusive phone call messages etc she found someone and i guess that turned her sane again. we are not really great friends but i still see her every now and then and have a chat.
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I Supported Toymods
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:41
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LOL, not in the country at the moment, but whenever she comes back..... yeah
But I reckon you'll break her. She's only petite.
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:42
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I'd have a chat to ex-girlfriends if I saw them in the street, but I wouldn't make an effort to call them.
Well, that said, I've sent a few messages out in the last 2 days
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:42
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Ey, what you saying about me boy?? Why would I break her??
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:43
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you're not laying the groundwork for a crawlback are you?
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:43
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Crawlback to who???
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I Supported Toymods
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:46
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| stradlater wrote on Tue, 26 July 2005 17:42 |
Ey, what you saying about me boy?? Why would I break her??
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LOL. You may as well take that as a compliment... I'll let you take it the way you want to
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:50
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Ahh,, but clearly not the way you intended...
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Kellyville, Sydney
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:50
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to the one you just broke up with. sorry i may have missunderstood. who were you sending the messages to?
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:54
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Oh. hehe..
nono..
I was sending messages to other ex's and they weren't crawlback messages..
I have no intention of crawling back, considering in reality I was the one who wanted to break up anyway...
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I Supported Toymods
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:58
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Hehe. You just want sex don't ya?
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 07:59
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ok good. ive had mates that have broken up with chicks, then a month or two later they're back together, then a month or two after that they're like "wait a minute, what the fuck am i doing back in this shit.". hate seeing it happen.
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 11:08
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| Dale_ta22 wrote on Tue, 26 July 2005 20:54 |
Spending money works for me, as well as keeping busy/distracted with something. But the best thing is really (at least) talking to other girls, it seems to cure it like nothing else for me.
And as already said, porn
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Find a good project and spend spend spend
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Tue, 26 July 2005 11:15
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Hi,
Anything you immediatly do will be a knee-jerk/rebound action - whether it's going to get roots, msging ex gfriends, hitting the piss or whatever.
All you can do is live with your decision and get on with your life. Time heals just about everything. I know that sounds trite and silly, but it does. As time rolls by you'll think of other things and find other interests and girls etc, and your thoughts of your ex will slowly diminish. Take the pain and feelings you now have as a learning experience and get on with your life.
If you want to be friends then fine, but usually it takes time for that relationship to morph from what you had into the "we're just friends" relationship.
I can almost hear Barbra Streisand..."Memories, like the corners of my mind...."
seeyuzz
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On Probation
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sydney
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 14:48
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blaze it up.
itll make u 4get everything
oh and if that dusnt work......... burn her car, itll make u feel beta
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Tue, 26 July 2005 14:56
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seek Dr. Phil.....
she already have a boyfriend yet? then go beat the shit out of that fella.. itll make you feel better..
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Tue, 26 July 2005 22:54
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well this is my situation
my gf broke up with me after our 6 month anniversary. the following week i went to the city with same mates got absolutely trashed and in the wee hours of the morning i was able to pick up.. extremely strange since she was hot (and my mates can confirm that) and im not exactly the best looking guy there
but yeah me and my ex got back together last night coz there was still something there between us.. so no hot asian canadian chick for me
trust me going out with mates getting pissed and picking up is the best combination for you 
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Tue, 26 July 2005 22:55
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| WANTED_AE86 wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 00:56 |
she already have a boyfriend yet? then go beat the shit out of that fella.. itll make you feel better...
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Definitely don't do that. Restraining orders and court dates suck teH cock.
If you really were an asshole to her, then perhaps now, whilst you're a bit raw, is the time to contemplate what drives your behaviour and how you might modify your behaviour for next time.
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Tue, 26 July 2005 22:56
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eat a p00 then go and give her one last kiss for old times sake.
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Tue, 26 July 2005 23:22
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wots her mom like ?
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Wed, 27 July 2005 00:05
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Go on a holiday to somewhere cheap and fun like Thailand, Bali or Vietnam. On if you are more cashed up Contiki holiday in Europe. It'll be a shitload of fun, you'll meet heaps of different people and it'll certainly help you get over her.
Going out with mates and getting pissed is always fun... but at the end of the day you'll more than likely be going home alone to your new best friend pron. And the next day you'll be feeling more miserable and shithouse.
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Wed, 27 July 2005 00:14
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| gianttomato wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 08:55 |
| WANTED_AE86 wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 00:56 |
she already have a boyfriend yet? then go beat the shit out of that fella.. itll make you feel better...
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Definitely don't do that. Restraining orders and court dates suck teH cock.
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thats exactly right
the best "revenge" you can get on her is to move on with your life, and make her see that what has happened hasnt affected you, that you're still strong and confident and moving forward in life... and she'll probably regret her own decision...
Don't fally into the pettyness of trying to take revenge on someone by making their life a living hell or hassling some other poor bloke who doesnt know wtf had gone on between you and her.
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Wed, 27 July 2005 00:16
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and if he was the one that left her why would he care if she met someone else first, as it would be a result of his own actions
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Wed, 27 July 2005 00:25
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| Corona RT142 wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 10:16 |
and if he was the one that left her why would he care if she met someone else first, as it would be a result of his own actions
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thats right...
although sometimes the other half in the relationship gets jealous the other person has moved on so quickly... they get cut because then they think "oh well what we had musnt have been as special as I thought" and then they spiral into a pit of self loathing and thought upon their whole relationship, get all depressed, lose their job and go and do something really stupid, like buy a corona
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Wed, 27 July 2005 00:34
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Wow guys, the response is overwhelming.
Yian: Yes, infact yes, I do want sex. It's been like 4 months. And I dont' consider myself exactly an unattractive guy, so why no sex for daniel????
Mynameisrodney: Yeah, I don't intend on getting back together, because i was the one that really wanted things to end, so getting back together would be doing the wrong thing by myself at the very least.
GT: Mate, I knew you'd come forth with a good response.. Now when you say younger girls, well considering I'm 23, a 22-27 age bracket is almost too high for me.. Lets try 18-25.. Sounds much better.. But I like your thinking.. Muchly..
Les: No, Her Mum isn't the go.....
Lench: I don't intend on beating up any of her new boyfriends, not worth the effort. I'd rather just stay away from her and get my own "sexual" revenge. That's gonna be much more powerful if need be.
Lumpy: Had considered that, and as such, I'm off to perth pretty soon.
Merudo: I think if anyone is in the pit of self loathing and jealousy, it's her at this point in time, I'm actually getting over it which is good.
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