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Location: sydney
Registered: August 2003
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 00:42
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stradlater wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 10:34 | Wow guys, the response is overwhelming.
Yian: Yes, infact yes, I do want sex. It's been like 4 months. And I dont' consider myself exactly an unattractive guy, so why no sex for daniel????
Mynameisrodney: Yeah, I don't intend on getting back together, because i was the one that really wanted things to end, so getting back together would be doing the wrong thing by myself at the very least.
GT: Mate, I knew you'd come forth with a good response.. Now when you say younger girls, well considering I'm 23, a 22-27 age bracket is almost too high for me.. Lets try 18-25.. Sounds much better.. But I like your thinking.. Muchly..
Les: No, Her Mum isn't the go.....
Lench: I don't intend on beating up any of her new boyfriends, not worth the effort. I'd rather just stay away from her and get my own "sexual" revenge. That's gonna be much more powerful if need be.
Lumpy: Had considered that, and as such, I'm off to perth pretty soon.
Merudo: I think if anyone is in the pit of self loathing and jealousy, it's her at this point in time, I'm actually getting over it which is good.
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when did i say beat anyone up
1. go out
2. alcomahol
3. pick up
4. ...
5. profit
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Location: Central Coast, NSW
Registered: February 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 00:54
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stradlater wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 10:34 |
Merudo: I think if anyone is in the pit of self loathing and jealousy, it's her at this point in time, I'm actually getting over it which is good.
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Apologies if at any time you thought I was referring to you. I wasn't...
Cheers
James
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Location: South Australia
Registered: July 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 00:56
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In my experience it's probably not worth staying friends. If you are still friends with her, then *every* chick she knows will not go near you with a ten foot pole (in Adelaide this can be a big problem, as everyone knows everyone) because they wouldn't want to upset the ex. Much better to tell her to piss off and then get busy with all her girlfriends
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Location: Central Coast, NSW
Registered: February 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 01:00
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RWDboy wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 10:56 | In my experience it's probably not worth staying friends. If you are still friends with her, then *every* chick she knows will not go near you with a ten foot pole (in Adelaide this can be a big problem, as everyone knows everyone) because they wouldn't want to upset the ex. Much better to tell her to piss off and then get busy with all her girlfriends
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I thought in adelaide it wasnt a matter of everyone knowing everyone, it was a matter of everyone being related to everyone?
Or was that tasmania?
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Location: South Australia
Registered: July 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 01:03
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Nah that's Tasmania - which doesn't help me cause I was born in Launceston.
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 01:40
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All: Wasn't meant to be any mis-understandings, I wasn't taking anything the wrong way..
As for the getting with her girlfriends and me not staying friends with her, well I had considering such, and I would like to get with one of her friends, but I'm not sure how that would go. But I'm not ruling it out, and by the same token, I'm not busting a gut to stay friends with her, whatever happens happens.
Hrm... The more I think about that friend, the better the prospect looks.....
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 01:41
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Oh, and on the note of tasmania, I know a rather decent chick from there...
Shame she doesn't return my Sms's anymore...
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Location: Hobart, Tasmania
Registered: January 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 03:10
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Merudo wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 11:00 | I thought in adelaide it wasnt a matter of everyone knowing everyone, it was a matter of everyone being related to everyone?
Or was that tasmania?
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YOU BASTARD!
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 03:23
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Hey, I quite like the tasmanian girls, I wouldnt' be knocking them....
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Location: Campbelltown
Registered: November 2003
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 03:24
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its a bit hard to knock em they have superior balance with their six toes on each foot
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 03:25
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Hohoh......
Bit rough.
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Location: Central Coast, NSW
Registered: February 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 03:44
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hahahaha
oh and rainey, its all good you drive a celica
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Location: Sydney
Registered: October 2003
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 03:45
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Rainey wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 13:10 |
Merudo wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 11:00 | I thought in adelaide it wasnt a matter of everyone knowing everyone, it was a matter of everyone being related to everyone?
Or was that tasmania?
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YOU BASTARD!
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I though the people in Adelaide were proof that Tasmanians could swim
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Location: Central Coast, NSW
Registered: February 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 03:50
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davedave wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 13:45 |
I though the people in Adelaide were proof that Tasmanians could swim
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zing
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Location: Campbelltown
Registered: November 2003
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 03:52
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meh i've been to warnambool a few have been reaching VIC too
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:00
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Ah, so they are actually tasmanians in croydon and bayswater hey?
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Location: Campbelltown
Registered: November 2003
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:03
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i have no idea where you talking about so i'll just smile and nod
Speaking of which i have distant relatives in Vic and they are inbred point proven nuff said nothing to see here.
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Location: Central Coast, NSW
Registered: February 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:13
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Corona RT142 wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 14:03 |
Speaking of which i have distant relatives in Vic and they are inbred point proven nuff said nothing to see here.
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You have inbred relatives?
I see now....
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Location: Campbelltown
Registered: November 2003
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:16
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yes indeed i do but they stayed in victoria where they belong, they are like man grandmother sisters children, or something like that.
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Location: Blue Mountains
Registered: December 2004
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:17
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And your mum
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Location: Campbelltown
Registered: November 2003
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:19
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Indi wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 14:17 | And your mum
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wtf are you on about
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Location: Blue Mountains
Registered: December 2004
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:21
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You left her off the list of inbreds in your family
*runs* no, dont smash that camera over my head please.
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:23
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Heh. The old 'yamum' jokes..
Hey, stop thread hijacking
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Location: Campbelltown
Registered: November 2003
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:23
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no she is not inbred, hey i wouldn't hurt my camera it cost to much.
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Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:33
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I have met Corona RT142, he isn't inbred but he is gay
Anyhoo, back on topic. The loss of anything that has been part of your life creates a void, fill that void and you can move on. Lose a girl, replace her with another one .
If only things were so simple.........
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Location: Central Coast, NSW
Registered: February 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:35
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fill the void with another car...
or take up smoking or something LOL
I kid, i kid
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:37
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Enough of the purchasing cars.. I've got enough already
But yes, the whole filling the void idea is a good one.. Just gotta be able to put it into practice..
Never the less.
And I don't like smoking...
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Location: Newcastle, Australia
Registered: March 2005
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:46
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<MooseOnDaLoose> Hey Mike
<goatboy> what?
<MooseOnDaLoose> Pussy.
<goatboy> er?
<MooseOnDaLoose> Pussy.
<goatboy> and?
<MooseOnDaLoose> Pussy.
<goatboy> ...
<MooseOnDaLoose> Pussy.
<goatboy> i dont get it
<MooseOnDaLoose> AND YOU NEVER WILL.
<goatboy> bastard
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:52
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And your point is?
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Location: Central Coast, NSW
Registered: February 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:53
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stradlater wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 14:37 | Enough of the purchasing cars.. I've got enough already
But yes, the whole filling the void idea is a good one.. Just gotta be able to put it into practice..
Never the less.
And I don't like smoking...
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yeah i was kidding man
take up an instrument? start working out?
spend some time enjoying being single for a while?
Hell i dunno you choose
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 04:58
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Yes, this is true enough, lots to choose from....
I already started working out before I broke up with her..
We'll see....
Really need some decent "conversation openers" though.. (Read 'Pickup Lines')
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Location: Parramatta
Registered: July 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 05:07
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here is my story of how i did it i had a gf of just over 4 years. we broke up killed like a crazy. However I went out with the boys all the time everyweeked went to the city alot Granted i spent ALOT of money on drugs and alchol. But i tell ya it was worth it foir many reasons.
I didnt care what i did or said to people, this actully brought my confidence up in the real world i got with (slept With) quite a few girls because of this attitude (good Looking one) and eventally say about 6 months of doing this and having an absolute blast. i meet my now fiancé, which is 10 times better in every way that could be though of. The reason i say this is because i was out having a great time with my mates i didnt care for a relationship or wasnt thinking about how sad i was i was just concerntarting on having fun. and out of the blue i meet this gorgeous green eyed, skinny hot blonde, as i said now my fiancé. So the moral of the story is just have fun and things will sort themselves out.
You will be fine because there are better things are in store for you.
good luck and have fun, dont let it get you down
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 05:15
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Sounds like quite the story.. Now i just gotta be able to pull it off.
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I supported Toymods
Location: I renounced punctuation
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 05:19
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Also buy the new Queens of the Stone Age CD. Play it loud.
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Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 05:19
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Quote: | just have fun and things will sort themselves out.
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true.
Also, chicks can sense a desperado from a mile away and will run for the hills. I have mates that try so farken hard with the ladies it's hilarious to watch, but sad at the same time
Apparently there is someone out there for every one.......probably not for Corona_RT142 though, he is special, often referred to as an asexual being with homosexual tendencies!
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 05:24
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GT: What's the new queens of the stone age album got to do with it?
Yes, I have to avoid the "desperado" scent.. Ah well, Time will tell hey...
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Location: Rockhampton QLD
Registered: July 2004
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 05:30
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MR. 2 wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 15:07 | here is my story of how i did it i had a gf of just over 4 years. we broke up killed like a crazy. However I went out with the boys all the time everyweeked went to the city alot Granted i spent ALOT of money on drugs and alchol. But i tell ya it was worth it foir many reasons.
I didnt care what i did or said to people, this actully brought my confidence up in the real world i got with (slept With) quite a few girls because of this attitude (good Looking one) and eventally say about 6 months of doing this and having an absolute blast. i meet my now fiancé, which is 10 times better in every way that could be though of. The reason i say this is because i was out having a great time with my mates i didnt care for a relationship or wasnt thinking about how sad i was i was just concerntarting on having fun. and out of the blue i meet this gorgeous green eyed, skinny hot blonde, as i said now my fiancé. So the moral of the story is just have fun and things will sort themselves out.
You will be fine because there are better things are in store for you.
good luck and have fun, dont let it get you down
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the moral of this story: do drugs, theyll get you layed
j/k
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Registered: May 2002
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 05:44
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86DRFT: Yeah, I'll have to pass on the drugs though..... Not my scene..
ke382tg: Yeah, hobby of sorts would be a good idea, but I do have one, it just doesn't involve the females particularly... And I don't see the point in hanging out at nudie bars, because those chicks aren't for picking up, they are for paying. So long as you have money, you'll have tits...
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Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 05:56
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Yeah avoid the paying for chicks scene, as a good mate I always bring up my buddies nudie bar and strip club exploits when his current GF is about and then watch him talk his way out of his shady past
A few of the good looking chicks at my work get pissed and go to those speed dating things that some clubs put on. I would have thought that these girls at my work would have had no trouble with meeting guys either (smart, good looking, professional types). I am sure a few heffas would do that sort of stuff though so you would have to take the good with the bad.
In the end you are only young and there are plenty of single chicks at that age, I pity the older crew that are still single, they have to sift through the divorced and psycho left overs.
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Location: sydney,nsw.oz.
Registered: July 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:01
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stradlater wrote on Tue, 26 July 2005 16:28 | she has a hot best friend
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Go on ! You know you want to
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:11
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ke382tg: Yeah, I don't really want to be in the "paying" scene. And I guess you gotta take the good with the bad but SERIOUSLY ----- I've had my fucking share of the bad.. Time for some good!!!!!! + I don't want to be OLD and single, but the definition of old is pretty broad i guess....
FWDCelica: Yeah, I know I want to , but I think it might be a touch harder than expected... Then again, i think I might go sms her now...
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Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:17
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Old = the 40 year old cocks at my work that think the way to pick up the younger women is to udno the top 4 buttons on your shirt for "casual Friday"
Ex's best friend + you = hit it!
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Location: Adelaide, SA
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:18
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stradlater wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 15:41 |
... Then again, i think I might go sms her now...
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Be a man and phone her. SMS is for the WEAK, the SAD, the HOPELESS!!!. In one phone call you could say the same as 50 text msgs. Don't beat around the bush with ghey texting games..
Unless she's 17. Then txting is cool and hip and now and my friend thinks that your friend is cute and can you believe what my friend sharon said I mean I like her but sometimes shes a bitch like when we were at the mall and I looked hot but she was a dag and I just thought............
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:21
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KE: Yeah, I don't want to be that 40 year old like you say.... As for the best friend, they are pretty well best friends, and I don't think she'd do anything unless there was some persuasion at the moment. She hardly responded to my sms's before, I have a feeling she may not reply at all now.
Lumpy: Yeah, well this girl is 20. However.. Shy type and all. and if i call her, what do I say? "Yeah, so you heard from jess? Hrm, no hey? well, um, how bout a fuck?" Just a touch transparent.. I guess it'd be better if I left it for a bit and then maybe struck something up. Plus I dont' want to piss the ex off by being a vendictive bastard and getting with her friend STRAIGHT away..... give me a little time... hehe. I dunno, If I was to call her, what do I say?
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Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:27
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SMS: ay bb wt r u up 2? i brk up wit ??? n i nd sum1 2 tlk2. wnt 2 go4 coff33? L8r strdl8r
Engrish transration: Hello, what are you up to? I broke up with (insert ex name here) and I would like to talk to someone about it. Would you like to go for coffee? talk to you later, Mr Stradlater
Vote 2: SMS is weak
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:29
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KE: Hrm.. Yeah, I can see your point actually. But, I dunno man, just doesn't feel right..
And plus, seeing as how I did actually have something to say, I probably would have called for something like that, because A) SMS is weak, B) there's more than three words there and C) SMS is weak..
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Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:34
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This Forum needs a Yoda type dude that specialises in love counselling, someone who knows exactly what to do in every awkward situation.
Pity the reality is that this forum is made up of pasty white single men who beat off over old Toyotas and have no idea about the fairer sex.
NB: no offence to the pasty nerds, your time will come
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:36
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Ey, was that aimed at me??
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:42
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Maybe so, but you've actually made sense. Not some tranny shite.... Or atleast only in your spare time maybe.. There have been some interesting responses, and I've taken what I consider useful, and repectfully discarded everything else.
Just good to talk about stuff. I tell ya, I feel shit loads better than I did yesterday...
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Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:47
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Quote: | There have been some interesting responses, and I've taken what I consider useful, and repectfully discarded everything else.
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Smart man.
I spose it is pretty easy to throw around ideas in the carefree environment of a forum.
It'll all work out for the best, as many have previously said.
Just a query, was the ex for or against car time?
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:50
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Hehehe.
Good question..
For for the most part, BUT, she did think I spent too much time with the car. That was partially because I didn't spend any time with her at all, I wasn't being fair at all. She was really good about it, and enjoyed coming to drag racing meets. I guess you won't always get that. But, any girl that ends up with me, is gonna need to be ok with car time.. hehe.
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:55
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Re: car time
Sounds about the norm. Worst move I ever see my car enthusiast mates make is to pretend they have no interest in cars when they are in the early stages of a relationship with a new girl and then try to go back to their car loving ways after the relationship is established, usually ends in tears. The GF gets pissed at "car time", the guy gets pissed about not getting car time and something has to give, worst case, the car is sold.
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Wed, 27 July 2005 06:59
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It'd be pretty hard to "hide" my car enthusiam. However, that said, I work in the city, doing a 9-5 m-f, so my car time has to be limited anyway...
That said.. The Car WILL NOT be sold.... Stiff, that's just the way it is. It's not going...
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Location: Adelaide, SA
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Wed, 27 July 2005 23:22
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lumpy wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 15:48 |
stradlater wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 15:41 |
... Then again, i think I might go sms her now...
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Be a man and phone her. SMS is for the WEAK, the SAD, the HOPELESS!!!. In one phone call you could say the same as 50 text msgs. Don't beat around the bush with ghey texting games..
Unless she's 17. Then txting is cool and hip and now and my friend thinks that your friend is cute and can you believe what my friend sharon said I mean I like her but sometimes shes a bitch like when we were at the mall and I looked hot but she was a dag and I just thought............
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Shit - I think my medication was runnig a bit low when I wrote this
Girls and Cars rarely mix. Marriage, children, renovations and modified cars do not mix. I know this all too well sadly.
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I Supported Toymods
Location: Lwr Templestowe, Melbourne
Registered: August 2004
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Thu, 28 July 2005 00:42
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stradlater wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 10:34 |
Yian: Yes, infact yes, I do want sex. It's been like 4 months. And I dont' consider myself exactly an unattractive guy, so why no sex for daniel????
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Damn man.. 4 months? Fuck...
Quote: | That said.. The Car WILL NOT be sold.... Stiff, that's just the way it is. It's not going...
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And thats good to hear. I still have to get a proper ride in your BBQ machine
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Thu, 28 July 2005 00:45
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Oh. Sorry to hear that your renovations didn't work out. I must say though, most girls I've been with have been pretty good about it, but I guess things are subject to change
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Location: Arthurs Creek, Victoria
Registered: May 2002
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Thu, 28 July 2005 00:56
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Yian: Yeah, four months.. Got any decent female friends that would be interested mate? It's been a while. heh.(I guess it's no laughing matter)
As for the car, yeah, it's not going to be sold
and you'll be the first to know when it's back up and running, it's a fair way off at the moment, but trust me, it's gonna be a monster when it gets back on the road.
But, back to the friends thing. I'm serious you know..
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Location: Central Coast, NSW
Registered: February 2005
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Re: Best way to get over someone
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Thu, 28 July 2005 01:03
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ke382TG wrote on Wed, 27 July 2005 16:27 | SMS: ay bb wt r u up 2? i brk up wit ??? n i nd sum1 2 tlk2. wnt 2 go4 coff33? L8r strdl8r
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ROFL
"l8r strdl8r"
bahahaha
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